The parents of Seung-Hui Cho worked as drycleaners. Seung-Hui Cho is the Virginia Tech student who killed 30 fellow students and two teachers before ending his own life. So we might ask ourselves, how does one cope with disaster in his/her life?
How does one live on, day after day, after a family member has done a despicable act? How can one handle the humiliation of being involved, even marginally, with destroying lives? This includes the lives of the victims as well as their families.